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Take The Personal Development 30 Day Challenge
Is there anything you desire to change in your life for the better. Any bad habit you want to get rid of or any new good habits you want to adopt? Think of how much more rewarding your life would be if you developed new more beneficial habits. Perhaps you simply want to stop smoking, study a new language, take time out to relax each day, exercise every evening or maybe you have other such personal development aims that you never managed to get around to before, let alone achieved. If this is the case then why don’t you throw down the gauntlet and take on the 30 day challenge!
What is the thirty day challenge? Basically it is an effective method of bringing about new habits into your life. You see, very often the hardest part about forming a new habit is actually starting and lasting for more than a few days. Trying to create a new habit or get rid of an old one can appear to be a very hard thing to do at first because it is the rest of your life that we are talking about afterall. However the thirty day challenge actually allows you to quit no questions aked after just 30 days! If the law of attraction is ‘the secret’ then beyond the secret is the power of habit.
This style of mentl approach gives you the impression that at least it is not forever and that you are really achieving something worth doing. Following the thirty day trial period you can then of course decide to begin smoking again or you could decide to stick with your new habit and following the thirty days it also will have had time to transfer itself into a new habit. Psychologically it is literally just so much easier to get through, you can cross days off a calendar or countdown the days until your chosen date, either way it is just heaps more motivating.
Following the 30 days you may then take some time out to decide if your new habit is something that you wish to continue with or not. If it does then you will find it much much easier to make it a more permanent behavior. You will have had time to benefit from the new habit, break the old habit and bed in the new habit. From this position you will easily be able to tell if it is something you want to continue with or not. You may also wish to further extend the challenge for another month or two to help maintain the psychological effect of it only being a semi-permanent change and it will also provide you with a new target and challenge.
Of course it is not all easy going, the first few days will of course require effort on your part especially in terms of commitment and discipline but if you are selecting a goal that is going to improve your life then surely it will be worth it and you can even start counting your days down to freedom.
Here are some great ideas for 30 day challenges that could really benefit you in both the short and long term:
Read everyday for an hour, meditate everyday, commit to an exercise regime, cut out fast foods, eat your 5 portions of fruit and vegetables each day, call a different old friend each day, contact a family member, give-up TV completely, study a new language, quit smoking, become vegetarian, practice positive thinking, stop drinking alcohol, take time to relax more, stop watching soap operas, do Yoga, stop wasting time in on-line forums or online games, meet a new person each day. The list of possibilities is only limited to your imagination and what you deem beneficial for your life. Even if you don’t want to make a permanent change go ahead and improve yourself in the short term, you will gain from the experience of personal development whatever the outcome.
Whilst for the majority of activities performing them everyday may not always be the ideal way, for example running for new people can be stressful on the muscles and joints, sticking to it each day makes it seem lots easier and simpler to stick to because you don’t have the excuse of just taking a day off at anytime. So why not improve your life right now and map out a 30 day chart and a short statement of what you intend to achieve!Don’tbe afriad to make use of the many invaluable personal development products that are available out there too.
Turning Limiting Circumstances In To Successes
The self-imposed barriers that we carry around with us are generally our biggest barriers to success. The word “can’t'” almost certainly equals failure. In fact you might aswell not even begin to start typing, I’ll bet you won’t even start anyway. In order to achieve success you are going to have to remove the word “can’t” from your vocabulary, life will get easier from that point on.
We often manage to persuade ourselves that our circumstances are a reason not to achieve success and that we can simply hide behind them as a good reason not to be, do and have everything that we desire. Whereas it should be the other way around. Looking at our circumstances is the most undesputable evidence that we created our current situations good or bad and that we can change them for the future also! That is the secret. Learn to use the power of positive thinking and optimism as Winston Churchill describes:
“A pessimist sees the difficulty in every opportunity; an optimist sees the opportunity in every difficulty.”
If you are in what you consider a not so positive situation, take a look at how you got there. What thoughts were flying through your mind a couple of months back that allowed you to get into this situation, did you have any real goals, were you spending time around positive people? The probablity is that you haven’t been doing any of those things as they are the things that let you control the things that flow into your life and receive them the way you wish to.
So, when you look at your current circumstance realize that you have been responsible in the largest part for creating them and use this realization as motivation for you to create the circumstances that you desire.
Now, instead of saying: “I can’t because… or I will not be succcessful because…” say “I will succeed because…” and write down all of the resources that you have on your side, regardless of how large or small, like: previous experience, time, aid from others, ideas, motivations, good personal qualities, friends, acquaintances, future plans, savings, reasons to be succesful etcetera. Performing this one easy task will help you break through your negative view of you current situation and turn them straightaway into a positive asset.
Have you ever noticed how once you make a decision to do something AND start to take action on it, no matter how ridiculous or ambitious or difficult it may have seemed a path seemingly opens up for you to walk down whereby out of nowhere you begin to gain the things that you need in order to succeed.As soon as you start to ignore your current situation and make a firm decision and make positive action then good things will start to happen, a way can always be found. Vince Lombardi, 1913-1970, Hall of Fame American Football Coach agrees:
“We would accomplish many more things if we did not think of them as impossible.”
More often than not successful people will not know how they are going to get somewhere or achieve a certain goal, all they will know however is that they will achieve it. This mindset can be developed by any person and it is the mindset for success.
“Effort only fully releases its reward after a person refuses to quit.” – Napoleon Hill, 1883-1970, American Speaker/Motivational Writer/Author of “Think and Grow Rich”
Just to summaries then,you create your circumstance and should therefore not see it as a limiting factor, make a decision, act on it and then persevere and persevere some more until you have reached your goal. Then repeat the procedure for your new goal, this type of positive thinking is beyond the secret and can and will work wonders for you. Bear in mind there are also many personal development products that you may wish to look to for help too.
Your Mindset And The Law Of Attraction
When we look at the law of attraction as a focal point for our lives, now and into the future, we must develop our mindset. A successful mindset is the key to success, so long as we do not allow the word failure into our plans. Any number of things can go wrong as we move forward with our manifestation. There will be glitches, mistakes, bungles and setbacks, but no failures. We need to harness our mindset with the law of attraction principals, to provide the inner strength and ability to beat the odds.
Entrepreneurs are often asked, “what is the hardest decision they have had to make?”. Most answer, they don’t know “what a hard decision” is.This is due to the fact they approach decision making from a mindset and view of a possibility of something not working as planed. There mindset lets them know they will do there best and they will handle the obstacles as they arise.
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We use the law of attraction because we believe we can gain our desires. However, having the wrong mindset makes it very hard to believe the universal laws, can we achieve that we seek?. We fear mistakes, yet entrepreneurs accept they will happen, but they look to making mistakes as early as possible so they can learn from them and develop new knowledge and direction from them. The law of attraction is all about mindset, self belief within ourselves and our own self talk. Make your own mistakes a learning tool and a passage forward, not stumbling blocks and reasons for things not working as you planed.
Mindset is all about developing your inner self, going with gut feeling that feel right, using your intuition. Lets face it, all your inner feeling are being built of the exposure to life experiences, knowledge you have gained, courses you have attended and mentoring from those around us. Mindset is to trust yourself, it will not always be perfect but more often than not, you can work your way through or around the issues that arise. Go with your instincts, prevent checks and balances holding you back, while you build both your mindset and your confidence in it.
To achieve the outcomes from the law of attraction in both your personal life and your business, you have to practice being a manifestor of ideas. It’s not a course that available at schools and colleges, let alone on the internet. A learned experience needs both time and patience to gain, so start with smaller requests of the universe and build up to the bigger items as your experience develops. Your mindset and the linking into the law of attraction will become one, but only in time.
If you want to learn more about using the Law of Attraction then I recommend you read All about The 11 Forgotten Law and start learning how to use these Forgotten Laws and start living that dream life, you could only have dreamt about.
Our current mindset is usually limiting to our progress within the law of attraction, because our thought patterns are restrictive and limited and needs to be changed to a higher more challenging and questioning level. We must not be trapped by appearance or what others think, but let actual facts, as they can be seen, triumph. In time, our actions will become more powerful than appearance, for we will be on a higher plane. This higher level is of self-confidence and not of appearance, because now we know we can have that which we seek from our manifestations.
The bounty of the law of attraction will only enter into your life if you can project yourself with confidence and be assured in your abilities. As you commence the journey, you haven’t the faintest idea how you are going to achieve the things you want. The only clear facts you can rest on is your faith in what you do, strengthened with the knowledge others have trod the same path to success over many centuries before you. We must have the strength and conviction in our manifestation, such as estate agents have in position, position and position in there industry. Law of attraction and our mind set go hand in hand.
If you want the bounty of the law of attraction and the universe you must understand the power of manifestation and universal laws.To protect your faith that your in control and working with the right mindset, always ask yourself these two questions;
1. Could this be interpreted by anyone in a way that would shake his or her faith in me?
2. Could this be misinterpreted and held against me?
Achieving a strong leadership position is well know to be a lifelong learning process, as is being able to push through setbacks in achieving set down goals.Bouncing back form these mishaps and maintaining a clear mindset is also another milestone to reach. Being able to project and maintain the positives from any manifestation setbacks if they happen is a clear mark of a person’s mindset and abilities.
Should you bungle events, correct your line of attack and go on forward to your goals. Strategy is the key to achieve goals, so do as one senior executive was heard to say “Our strategy is to fail forward fast” and always go forward without reflection on the past. The past has already been determined so there is not point in looking to go back as you will not be able to alter it other than in your mind.
May your mind set bring you all the bounty of the universe now and forever!